Speaking of the habitus of ‘good students’: I’m currently sitting outside in the shade in my little suburban subdivision, poking around aimlessly on the internet; I hear voices; I look over at the street and a family is riding by on bikes. Family time seems like an unqualified good. As I watch, the sweaty adult guy with his shirt off is passed by the zippy young kid on the much smaller bike. I imagine a conversation about this later:
“Kid, stay behind your old man.”
“But I was having fun!”
“Do as you’re told.”
Here’s another version:
“Hey Dad, I beat you!”
“Whatever. You’ll understand when you’re older.”
Try this one:
“Dad, I’m way faster than you!”
“I saw that! Why do you suppose that is?”
I’m interested in how a kid happens who may notice status performances and weight-to-acceleration ratios as things she could figure out for herself.